Tuesday, June 1, 2010

To Steal?...


Hey Mamas,
This morning I was listening to the Russ Parr Morning show. They had asked listeners did Alicia Keys steal Swizz Beats and was she a home wrecker. Many blog writers have bashed Alicia and believe she is a man stealer. The listeners gave mixed reviews on their thoughts. The crew on the show had their mind made up about Alicia being a so called home wrecker. Let's really think about this...why are people so concerned about their personal lives?I personally don't believe a man can be stolen. One I never thought a man becomes your possession. Swizz Beats made his choice for his own reasons but I don't think Alicia had in her mind I'm gonna steal you. I listen to these words and they sound childish. Mashonda said she was the perfect wife to Swizz but he didn't say Mashonda was the perfect wife. We can have illusions in our heads that everything is perfectly okay in our marriage but we all have something we need to work on. Its hard for a woman not to look at her self and wonder what she is doing wrong for the man to leave. We must also remember he left he wasn't stolen. If your child gets up and walks over to another mother and sits with them...was the child stolen or did the child leave? So my blog wont be another Alicia Keys bash session. I think people need to mind their own business. Maybe if others weren't so concerned about what is going on in another house they could pay attention to their own lives. People lets get a life! We can see Alicia Keys doesn't give a damn... she is pregnant, just bought a penthouse, and with a man she loves.
-Peace & Many Blessings

7 comments:

  1. I agree people need to mind their business...there wld be less drama if there was no audience feeding a camp fire with gasaline is explosive.....I feel the same way about tiger I wld have went to that news conference and said mind ya damn business and have a good day, short and sweet

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  2. Yes...Tiger was so silly to explain, cry, and tell everyone his business. People like drama.

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  3. Interesting comment and opinion...I'm curious how long have you been married?

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  4. Hello reader, Thank you for reading my blog.I've been married long enough to know when my marriage is good and when its going terribly wrong. I wont break down if he wants to leave and again never believe he is has been stolen. A marriage has to based on a foundation and that foundation is Christ.

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  5. I really don't think the question is if Alicia is a man stealer. I agree with Hev! No one can steal anyone in a relationship. He is a grown man and makes his OWN decisions. He wasn't happy with something(s) that his wife was doing and his eyes/heart moved toward Alicia. However, the main issue is that Alicia should have waited until the divorce was FINAL. She is what- 4 months pregnant!! Swizz just got a divorce what a few weeks ago???Thats plain tryflin. It didn't matter if she was feeling him or not she should have waited and had that respect for herself to do that. She is in the WRONG!! It seems to amaze me because she is a product of just that. My views on her are totally different now. I wont ban her though because we all are not perfect. She just needs to redeem herself big time.

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  6. I love what you said about a marriage being established with a foundation, and that foundation being Christ. As well as people needing to mind their own business which means when it comes to someone else personal business there's nothing to say unless it goes against Christ! Take the beam out your eye own eye, then you will see clearly to cast the mote out of they brother's eye. This country has strayed away from what Christ says is right and teach what they think is right.

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  7. Women know when they are wrong. Many woman pretend that it is okay to be with another woman's husband. This mainly occurs becuase it has not happened to them. They want what they want at that time. Sometimes it is because they don't have any self respect, care for themselves, and/or have low self-esteem. Many women share someone elses man because they just don't know what it is like to be loved by a man. Being truly loved by a faithful man is wonderful. Many men lie to women about being married, however, women can read between the lines and refuse to do what they know is right. Getting pregnant by a married man does not make the relationship strong. Just wait and see. Alicia Keys is an awesome and talented woman. She will need to focus on the love of her child. If she was with him while he was with his wife, then only she and God will know. She will have to pay for that. People definitely reap what you sow.

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