BB Mama New Product Review: BUTTER HANDS

Hey Mamas,

     I'm always washing my hands or having them in some type of water. My hands tend to peel at the end of the day from all the cleaning and washing I do in the house. I have tried to put lotion or coco butter on them but after I wash my hands their back to being dry. Then Miss Oops Butter Hands came into my life and my hands are feeling brand new. I had to put this product to the test so I applied it once and went as I regularly do during the day. I washed dishes, washed my hands after diaper changes, washed clothes, and washed up little people. My hands still felt nice and no peeling. It felt like my hands were protected throughout the day. BUTTER HANDS has and SPF of 30 in it which is great for sun protection. It also has Sesame Seed Oil and Indica Seed Butter that keeps your hands hydrated without the greasy residue. I'm hooked on this hand cream that comes out the same color as butter with a sweet smell. Miss Oops Butter Hands gets The BB Mama Approval! Now you can buy this lovely hand cream from my shop...

Check it out buy it and love it!
Just Click on the Link Below

https://shopopensky.com/blaquebeautymama/buy/miss-oops-butter-hands/now

Why a HATER Hates?...

 

                                  

          We all have probably wondered why someone may hate us. Did we give them a reason to hate? Maybe that person never had a reason to hate you. I do know you can compare a hater to a bully. A hater usually isn't someone your scared of ...it's more of a pest or an annoyance to your life. A person that hates usually has low self esteem and lacks confidence. You can see these same qualities in a bully. A hater can be someone very close to you or someone you don't know. At times we feel sorry for a person that's a hater because their life revolves around trying to make someone else feel bad about their self. A hater only wants someone to feel exactly like them. All that time spent on hating instead of building up their own esteem to stop hating and be happy. If your not aware of the devices of a hater you can find your self being just like them.
          A hater hates because they hate the person staring right back at them in the mirror. Some where deep inside the person their hating they wish to be like. Learn from a hater to keep loving and move on. It was once said it takes more muscles and time to make a frown. Life is not worth the time to be unhappy and to be angry. I say if your a hater or find your self slipping into hater mode... take a good look in the mirror and ask your self is this really worth my time. Its very easy to be negative than to be positive. You never know when its too late to make a change so why not do it today.

_Peace& Many Blessings

GET THE LOOK!!!: Today we feature Jazmine's Dewy Look

      Jazmine Sullivan is already making waves with her new single Holding You Down. We are loving her music and also loving her new soft look. Jazmine showing a very delicate side and playing up her beautiful features gets an A plus from Blaque Beauty Mama. So you may be wondering how can you copy this fabulous natural dewy look...Read further down and I'll tell you how.

You will need:
A black eyeliner
Black mascara
A bronzer
Hot Chocolate Mama lip balm (Get this by going to http://www.soulsistahcosmetics.com/)

Now GET THE LOOK!!!...Dewy Natural Face here we go!

1. Make sure you hydrate your face with a nice moisturizer. After that if you are using a liquid bronzer apply that  all over the face. If you have a powder bronzer wait that will be the last step!
2. Draw a thick line along the upper lash line with the black eye liner.Then line your bottom lash with a thin line.
3. Take your Hot Chocolate Mama lip balm and place some on the eye lids and smooth it out across the eye lid. Smudge and blend it some into the eyeliner.
4. Smooth some Hot Chocolate Mama lip balm on the cheeks and lips.
5. Now get your powder bronzer and brush it on your forehead, cheeks, eyes, and chin.
6. Finish your Dewy Look  by applying your black mascara last.

Simple steps to get Jazmine's Dewy Look...

Enjoy!

-Peace & Many Blessing

Soul Sistah Cosmetics...Hoping for success!

A long process for the sisters of Soul Sistah Cosmetics will pay off in the end. Years of planning lip balm formulas, the names of the products, and so much more. Courtney and Heather Hayes move forward towards the future of their business with high hopes to make a mark in the cosmetic world. Soul Sistah Cosmetics theme of products come with names like Hot Chocolate Mama. Caramel Kisses, and Brown Eyed Sugah Girl. The style and names of products take you back to a theme of blaxploitation. Blaque Sugah their logo girl is beautifully profiled on products with a natural fro. The sistahs of SSC are working hard on future products that will have customers coming back for more. They take pride in their products being all natural with great scents that will excite the senses. Heather and Courtney are just starting to embark on their journey but have no plans on stopping.

Check out their website http://www.soulsistahcosmetics.com/

Go to their contact page to find out how to order products.

-Peace & Many Blessings

Sexy & Pregnant: Find out how you can keep being the hott one...

        The belly is growing and will continue to grow along with many other body parts. Most women think this is the time to stock up on big t-shirts and sweat pants. STOP!!!! Pregnancy is a beautiful thing and your baby bump should not hide under big droopy clothes. We also don't want to wear too tight clothes that have us looking like we are wearing our pre-pregnancy clothes. So you may be wondering what should I wear to remain or become the super sexy prego mama... You must first understand that being sexy is classy and not trashy. Being sexy comes with confidence and being aware your body's beautiful curves.  Right now mama while pregnant you got curves and all the right places so enjoy it!

Here are some pieces you should add to your wardrobe to spice up your look. Also with your sexy wardrobe check out  little things you can do to be a hot mama.

• Jeggings: The jean legging with stretch has comfort and style for your growing body. Try pairing some jeggings up with a flowy top that comes down pass the belly and hits the hip.http://www.express.com/home.jsp Check out Express for some sexy jeggings that fit your style!

• Kitten Heels: OK while your pregnant you hate to wear heels. Flats can be cute but we are going for sexy. Kitten Heels or Cigarette heels give you just enough heel and height. Your calf muscles need length for dresses and skirts. Kitten heels come in many different styles just look for the heel! http://www.shopstyle.com/browse?fts=kitten+heel# Check out this link and find a wide variety of kitten heels for summer and fall.

• Shorts: Yes you need some sexy shorts. They are made and such a nice variety of colors and styles. I would start off with black shorts. You can get a lot of wear out of them. Dress your shorts up and down. When being sexy dress them up with your kitten heel. If your a super sexy mama put them on with high heels. Your legs will have crazy length. So while the growing belly is out...your legs are showing off too! Click the link and check out fun sexy styles just for you.http://www.oldnavy.com/products/womens-shorts.jsp Old Navy has a nice selection of shorts in different styles.

• Try a Variety of Sexy Tops: Off the shoulder...super sexy! Layered flounce silk tops give your belly nice shape and room to breathe. Asymmetrical Knit Tunics are flowy but wont have you look big and bulky. Deep V shirts or simple V cut shirts give your growing bust line nice lines along with that growing bump. If you don't want to shop in maternity stores...Try going to other trendy stores and buy 1-2 sizes up from your original size. Its really all about the cut and style. Don't get locked into empire waist tops as the only style a prego mom can wear. There are many different styles of shirts that flow out or stay fitted to the body and give nice silhouettes around the belly.

• Lingerie: I cant forget the most super sexy add on. Yes you can still wear lingerie. Try the babydoll style and slips. Victoria's Secret has a wide variety of both styles. http://www.victoriassecret.com/sleepwear/babydolls-and-slips?pageAt=1 

  I didn't forget to share my little things you can do to be sexy...

1. Keep your toes polished. People never would think a pregnant woman would be able to touch her toes. It's a must to keep them polished and try hot colors like red, hot pink, and coral.
2. Find our your right bra size. Your bust might be growing and you don't want your bust line blending in with the belly...not cute!
3. A chunky ring, ankle bracelet, hooped earrings, or bangle bracelet are fun ways to make your sexy wardrobe pop!
4. Stay up on your skin care. Try getting a facial and always make sure your face and body is glowing. Try exfoliating the body and using body and face bronzers for that extra glow factor!
5. A new hairstyle never hurts. Try color and something opposite of your ordinary style. A new look always makes you feel sexy and confident.

So to all my Sexy Prego Mamas have fun shopping and finding your inner sexy diva!

-Peace & Many Blessings!

Aqueelah Williams: A true star behind the many faces on a cover

Hey Mamas,

Welcome to my new edition of Chronicles of Blaque Beauty Mama. My treat to you and new format is to provide you with great blogs in magazine format. What better way can I start off my new style with an exclusive interview about Aqueelah Williams. If you don't know her name you might have saw her face and name grace the covers and pages of Black Sophisticates and many other black magazines you know and love. Not too long ago I caught up with Aqueelah to find out more about her career and the humble beginnings of her start in the beauty industry. I promise this is a treat... I hope you enjoy

BBmama: When and how did you start out in the beauty industry?
AW: I started when I was 18, my first real job as a receptionist for a black owned beauty/ hair magazine company.


BBmama:What was the benefit of starting out young in the beauty field?


AW: My lack of terminology and industry etiquette afforded me the chance to experience different avenues of the business, constantly given tasks out side of my job description. Being on photo shoots, traveling, modeling I learned everything! I moved up in the company quickly because of the fresh ideas I had. I got hip and stayed with the company long enough to build relationships and freelance with other companies. After a while I was more of a partner/advisor not an employee.


BBmama:What are your talents?


AW: I’m a published MUA, that has had jobs as a production manager, model, modeling instructor, photography coordinator, and wardrobe stylist. Within the last few years I've added lash tech and wig stylist to my arsenal.


BBmama:How did you learn to be a makeup artist?

AW: I'm self taught, some of the tips and tricks I learned from the artist I use to hire for shoots at the mag. Most of my practice was on my self, I had my own formula no real rules


BBmama:Who have you worked with in the beauty industry

AW: My resume includes and is not limited to: Miss USA, Cover Girl Tour, Clinique, Mirror Image Cosmetics, B.E.A.T., Little Mo, KeKe Wyatt, Sicili Sewell, The Philadelphia Eagles (print), and The Baltimore Ravens (commercial).I also have tear sheets from my published work featured in: Sophisticates Black Hair, Salon Profiles, Da Book Magazine, and Salon One. Allen Media Group and Spicer Productions…

BBmama:What are your likes and dislike in the beauty industry?

AW: I like the beauty industry for staying trendy and because of that it has highs and lows for a freelance artist, so that's not consistent pay which is my small dislike however it keeps me on my toes.


BBmama:Tell us one thing you think people don’t know about makeup artistry?

AW:People don't know that its not as easy as it looks, for example to create a "natural" look can require a lot of makeup.

BBmama:What is Powder Room Consulting? When did you start it?

AW:I started the group a few years ago, we serve as a liaison between the client and the beauty industry.


BBmama:What are the services you provide?

AW: I merged my experience with skilled professionals through powderroomconsulting as a platform where artists, stylist, and photographers can provide expert assistance.


BBmama:How is your career now being a newlywed and mommy?

AW:I’m learning every day, its all about balance.


BBmama:What would you like to do in the future in the beauty field?

AW:In the future I want to brand my own "beauty survival kit" and mineral line, and I’d also love to have a beauty supply store.


BBmama: Name 2 words to describe you?

AW:Versatile and highly motivated…


After chatting with Ms. Williams I can agree with those two words.


-Peace & Many Blessings!

In a boyz world

Hey Mamas,

   Last week my heart way beating fast as the lady traced over my belly. The baby looks perfect I was told but I really wanted to know what was the sex. I closed my eyes then opened again to see...yes its another boy. I cried because I was hoping for my daughter. No...another little boy. At that point I was really sad and disappointed and no one could understand it but me. I came back to the waiting room to see all my sons sitting there quietly and strangers looking at my boys in amazement. They are so well behaved I have heard many times while out but I know better. I remember in the past as an teenager I was boy crazy. I was always involved or looking for some guy. Its amazing the irony and humour God can have with you. I had to set my emotions aside and see what God wants me to learn from this circle. I can't say I fully figured it out all the way. One thing I do know I was given these beautiful boys that will grow up to be great men that will love me forever. So I'm happy with boy number 6. I'm happy to say I'm having another little man in my life that will love me and likewise I do the same. While I'm trying to understand the lessons God wants me to learn the boys will be right there with me. My disappointment fades and I look forward to the future and a life without circles.


-Peace&Many Blessings

No Limits with Open Sky

Hey Mamas,

  Not too long ago this week I was getting dressed watching Good Morning America. The story that peaked my interest was about mothers working from home.  I'm thinking to my self I have to watch this. I find out one lady is a blogger working from home reviewing and selling products to her readers that she loves and trusts...wow! I instantly write down the link. Open Sky! I'm running to the computer that's for me. I sign up on the website and a day later I get an email. I get invited to be apart of Open Sky and open up my own shop! The nice part about Open Sky is someone calls you to get you started and familiar with the company. I was called by Matt. He answered all my questions about Open Sky and helped me to feel comfortable about selling.

  So ladies August 10th I'm open for business. My shop will be open and I'm ready to let you know whats hot! I will only inform you about products I love that I know you will love. You will be able to easily purchase my reviewed products from me. Open Sky was the perfect fit for me being a blogger and loving to review great products. We hear about products everywhere but now you can buy from an everyday person like your self. I'm happy to say this will be a new element added to my blog that will get you even more involved with me. If your a blogger or have a small business and great products check out Open Sky. Go to www.theopenskyproject.com.... the steps to getting started are super easy! Be on the look out for my Blaque Beauty Mama product reviews. I hope you will enjoy!

-Peace & Many Blessings

Fall for Flats

Hey Mamas,

Fall is around the corner and its time to go shopping. An email from Payless brought another transitional shoe to my mind. Flats!!! or ballerina flats some may call them is the perfect shoe to buy for early fall. Your foot will have just the right balance of coverage and skin showing. You can still wear them in summer and never feel like your breaking out the fall gear to early. We all know retail stores like to bring out the fall apparel quick while summer is on our minds. So... stock up on your flats fast!!!! Check out Payeless
 They are having some nice deals and I just went to Target and saw some cute ones I'm thinking of getting. You can't go wrong with a flat majority of the time. Get yours today!

-Peace & Happy Shopping!

The Token One...

Hey Mamas,

  I remember back in the day 90210 had not one black person on the show. Now we see  a couple of different black faces on the show and one of the main characters is a black boy. In my head I think should I really be jumping up and applauding the fact that one token black boy made it on the show. Yes, its nice to see us on television but why is there such a lack of us on shows. My sons love to watch reruns of Everybody Hates Chris . Now a perfectly decent show is off the air and CW places shows on with no plot and the dialog is boring. You can flip through the channels and every time see a white face. The only time you will see a black face on a consistent basis is  on BET or TV One. What ever happen to great quality black shows like Cosby and A Different World? I still today can watch reruns of both shows and laugh.It was said that during the time A Different World was on t.v. there was an increase of young black children wanting to attend black colleges. I love to see us in comedy but its getting rather played out to see our own always being the clowns. In the movies we see so many token black actors. I'm starting to wonder are these actors not caring at all to be stereotyped. There are a few good shows out there that I like. I am looking forward to The Game coming back on... another  good show cancelled by CW. I also saw a new spy show coming out with Boris Kodjoe and another black actress. Well we will see what shows come out this fall. Obama is president but you still can't get a good foundation of  black shows and movies with great plots and drama. Have things really changed?... HMmmmm....

-Peace

It's all possible!!!

Hey Mamas,

 I took a little break from the blogging. I have been busy with some projects that are making me very happy. Tyra Banks and many others stand tall, happy, and proud when receiving awards for their hard work and I feel the same. I didn't receive an award but I really feel like I got one. July has been a successful month for me. My sister and I finally formulated products for our business Soul Sistah Cosmetics. We were vendors at an event and sold all of our lip balms. I also got to feature my blog at the event and have some new readers. I found out I'm a great graphic artist and website designer. I never thought I could build my own website. My home is finally in order and the boys are doing great with the chores. Trust me my life isn't always a bowl of sunshine but my accomplishments mean so much to me. I'm moving at a pace that Christ wants me to be at and if I have him in my corner I'm good. I'm a mother of 5 and sometimes that can be really difficult to make things happen. In the month of July I found out it's possible to do all the things I want to do for my self and my family. It's hard work but its all worth it!...

Phil 4:13

-Peace & Many Blessings

The No, No Zone: Talk 2 Your Kids About Molestation

Hey Mamas,

Sorry to say it but we are living in a sick world. In Maryland numerous reports of child molestation are being reported. The sad fact is many of these children are only in the age range of 1-4yrs old. One major thing a mother and father should know is most child molestation occurs from a relative. Many children don't tell their parents because they believe it will hurt the family. I know for myself I talk to my children about good touch and bad touch. I also tell them the right names for their private parts so if something happens they can tell me exactly the area that has been touched. I know it may be horrible to think your child might become a victim of child molestation but it's good that you prepare them early about the society they live in. I remember when I was younger some of my classmates still believed babies were delivered by storks and didn't know the proper name for their private parts. A misinformed child leaves room for child predators to easily harm and take advantage of their ignorance. I let my boys know I don't care if its a relative, teacher, or stranger you tell me if someone touches you the wrong way. Kids are never to young to learn about good touch and  bad touch. If you haven't had that talk with your children maybe you should start today. Molestation is something that can affect a child when they become an adult. We have to make sure we are raising and protecting our children to be happy and successful adults. Talk to your kids today.


-Peace

Never Underestimate Your Kids

Hello Mamas,

After talking to my twin about getting control over the house work in the home I finally made a chore chart. I usually do all the chores in the house alone believing the boys are too young to help. So when I sat down to make the chore chart I had to think about what could the the boys truly do without driving me crazy. I'm shocked that I came up with about 15 things within the house my little ones can do with no problems. Yesterday we started the chore chart and to my surprised everyone was very excited. My son that's two helped me with breakfast and did a great job. My oldest vacuumed and so much more to my surprise he was able to accomplish on his own. At night before I turned off the lights I looked at the downstairs in disbelief.  I must say I underestimated my sons' ability to do chores. I'm happy for the simple advice I received. I hope these chores will teach the boys responsibility and make them great men in the future. Chores are great for kids and great for mommy too.


-Peace& Many Blessings

Peek-a-Boot: The Hottest Transitional Trend

Hey Mamas,

Some people may think boots in the summer that will never be me. The latest trend is Peep-toe Boots. You can match them up with just about anything. I have seen them in many fun colors that will have your wardrobe popping with color and texture. The fabulous thing about these boots are they transition into fall. You can wear your peep-toe boots with some skinny jeans in the fall and still look in season. Next time you go shopping invest in some peep toe boots. I promise you will get your money's worth out of these shoes.


-Peace& Many blessings

Success:Does this come with a cost?... (For a Woman)

Hey Mamas,

You remember that movie Baby Boom? Well this movie has been recently coming on lately. I used to watch it with my mother and sisters when I was younger. I would watch it but never truly understand it. My sisters and I would ask my mother dumb questions about the movie and my mother would explain to us the situation like we were adults...lol. So recently while watching it I finally understood the movie and could relate it to my life. My sons were watching it with me and were asking the same dumb questions I was asking when I was younger but I realized something... they are boys. Little boys become men and will never truly understand this movie. If you never seen Baby Boom its about this woman that has a career at this firm. She is very powerful and focused on her career. Being a woman she doesn't want anything to stop her from making partner but a great unexpected change awaits her in the future. Her cousin dies and wants her to take over the care of raising his daughter. In a split second her life changes and a little baby girl turns her world upside down. I have to say the major part in the movie that affected me is when her boss said a woman cant be successful like a man. If she decides to get married or have a baby she wont be able to perform her duties on the job like a man can. The sad thing and I believe its true... that she cant. Some women will think I'm crazy but think about it. Usually a woman has to give up something to make life easier in the home. In the movie the lady became successful but she had to sacrifice some things. She ended up moving, working from home, having a crib in her office, and sometimes taking her daughter with her to do business. I don't think it is horrible or wrong that we have to sacrifice and make changes as women to have successful careers but it can be more difficult. At times I feel our fight can be harder but it makes us stronger. A famous author I remember watching on show has six children. When they were younger she said she would be up in the middle of the night writing her books. She went on to say cant count how many times one of her children would get up needing something or watching her type. A successful career for a woman comes with a cost and many sacrifices. I don't think it should get in any woman's way of achieving her goals. Can she have it all? I guess in our own little way we have just what we need.

-Peace

In a Time of Change

Hey Mamas,

 I remember one of the biggest changes in my life is when I moved from Indiana to Baltimore. As a little girl I didn't know that this major move would change the life that I knew forever. When I came to Baltimore everything was so different. The people looked and talked different from me and I wasn't sure if that was a good thing. I am happy I made that major move as a child because usually children adapt and easily embrace change differently from adults.My parents making that one decision impacted so many things in my life like who my friends would be, my schools, my personality, the men in my life etc.I'm not mad about my parents decision because so many great things happened to me I would had never experienced. Even the bad that occurred in my life in Baltimore was only growth and needed change. A new job, relationship, or child can cause change. Time goes by and change keeps occurring in every ones life. In my life many good and bad changes are occurring at a rapid pace. At times while this change happens I'm not always happy about it. I realized I have to suck it up and deal. Some changes in my life have made me really sad but I cant let it stagnate my growth. I used to be scared of things being different in my life and sometimes I still am. I give my self a little pep talk that change must occur in all areas. I pray I'm always remain consistent in my life changes and embrace the future to come. Whether it be good or bad change must happen or we will never grow. As this world rotates we move with it never knowing all of life's changes. All I can do is pray for the good and ask Christ to help me get through the bad.


-Peace & Many Blessings

Fading Faces...

Hey Mamas,

Times out here are getting harder and things change at a rapid pace. Today friendship has been on my mind. When we go through things we hope for our friends to be there for us. I see in my own life tribulation only brings us further apart. A Facebook message, pictures, or a text becomes the norm of a friendship. A face fades and I'm starting to forget who my friends truly are in my life. I thank God for my blood sisters in my life that have truly been there for me. I just hope as time goes by my friends fading appear again. When times are hard that's when you stick close together. A battle is not fought alone. I think sometimes we just believe doing it all alone helps others not to feel a burden. If you have a friendship fading save it...if the person is worth not losing.

-Peace

Ruffle & Hide: Camouflage areas you hate!

Hey Mamas,

You might not want to wear a body shaper this summer. I don't blame you its too damn hot! I do know I hate the bulge to show and round tires look unsightly to others. I got this email from Express showing cute ruffled clothes. When I saw the clothes I thought to my self this is a sure way to camouflage some not so appealing bulge. The layering of ruffles give texture and balance and distract the eyes from problem areas. Also if you get ruffles with a cute pattern you can appear to be very slim around the midsection. If you can see in the picture the ruffled dress is pulled in with a skinny belt. Try matching up a skinny belt with a ruffled shirt or dress. The belt can bring in the waist more and give your body more defined lines.Check out the link below to Express and Ruffle it up today! 

http://www.express.com/catalog/search.cmd?form_state=searchForm&x=0&y=0&keyword=ruffles&ICID=2128

Hey Mamas,

I would say this blog entry is a time for me to vent in my own way. We say no to many things that are bad for us. We say no to bad food, no to something too expensive, and no to many other things we know is just not right or us. So my stand for my self is to say no to negative people and things in my life. If the negativity is coming from me I choose to say no. Only you can allow people to be a negative energy in your life.
I choose to do right for my self. Sometimes eliminating people and things that cause you hurt or pain can be a step forward to something good. I take the stand to say no and pray that the Lord see me through the tough times.

Wearing white this summer?:Learn how 2 wear it right!

Hey Mamas,

White is on the scene and everyone wants to wear white pants. Boy short, skinny jeans, or many other styles are making their appearance this summer. You may be wondering how can I wear them? Here are some simple ways to stay stylish and not end up looking cheesy and too coordinated. No one wants to end up looking like a big blob of white.

• When wearing shoes with white pants try neutrals like brown, nude, and cream. You can also wear animal printed and metallic shoes.
• Try bright bold colored tops like hot pink and sunshine yellow. Bold colors are a nice contrast and will make your t-shirt or blouse stand out more.
• Gold accessories bring in class to white pants. Hooped gold earrings and chunky gold cuff bangles make a statement.
• Soft pastel tops matched with beaded necklaces, pearls, or studs can maintain a romantic look for those warm summer nights.
• If you are matching a white shirt with white pants... try a print on the white shirt. Also try breaking up the white with an accessory. A belt, nice hobo bag, or neutral colored shoes can make the outfit complete.

Fear no more to wear white pants. Try these tips and leave the house in style!

-Peace & Many Blessings